Lately I wondered why there are more enlightened men than women. Most books on awakening or enlightenment are written by men. But then I got to know it. Men do not think so much. It's quite honestly easier to let go of these few thoughts and to absorb the world only by the senses. Lazy slobs they are. Nothing else. They do not even want to think these few thoughts.
Take my boyfriend and me:
I happened to ask him: Darling what are you thinking about? He: nothing.
After some time I gave up to ask him as I got always the same answer.
The other way round it is totally different. It's not even necessary to ask me: It's enough to look at me a bit longer than usual. I tell at once tragedies of my past or even comedies, office gossip, plans for the future.
OMG, perhaps my boyfriend IS enlightened and he makes a secret out of it.